Pete De Maio originally from Ventnor, NJ married his high school sweetheart, Tricia. They’ve been happily married since 2003 and have seven beautiful children; four boys and three girls. Pete is a very successful Allstate Agent and genuinely enjoys Insurance & Financial work having majored in both at Temple University. Tricia is a Villanova Alum, former nurse, and now a stay at home mom. Pete enjoys being a lector & server at the Cathedral Basilica of Saints Peter and Paul in Philadelphia. He was named the President of Pennsylvanians for Human Life, where he has been a volunteer speaker and served on the board since 2008. He also serves on the board of Jersey Shore Women’s Center and on the Respect Life Leadership Council for the Archdiocese of Philadelphia. He’s a sought after Catholic speaker having presented on various topics since 2008. Together, Pete and Tricia believe that marriage and family are the central unit of society. They love teaching The Joy Filled Marriage program through Ascension Press and are often utilized specifically to teach Natural Family Planning. Their entire family is active in pro-life witnessing. Pete and Tricia were both born and raised Catholic but they have a beautiful reversion and healing story which they are always thrilled to share.
Chuck Reimer joined Pennsylvanians for Human Life in 2008 first as a volunteer speaker, and then was invited to join the Board of Directors. He spearheaded PHL’s first ever virtual “Celebrate Life” event in March of 2021. He is in the process of developing PHL’s respect life video library by coordinating with a recoding company. This library will eventually be available to all groups inside and outside our region interested in learning the “Science” behind the concept “Life begins at conception and ends with natural death”. Chuck is retired from Citizens Financial Services, a subsidiary of Citizens Bank where he worked for 20 years. He was a Senior Vice President at the time of his retirement and had served on the Executive Advisory Committee for 5 years. Chuck grew up in Philadelphia, graduated from St. Thomas More High School and Villanova University. He and his wife Betsy have raised six children and enjoy the benefits of five grandchildren.
Charles has been the treasurer of PHL and a member of the board since 2005 and is committed to advancing the mission of PHL, recognizing the importance of every life. He is an active member of Knights of Columbus and is presently the Grand Knight of Mater Dei Council #4129 in Newtown Square and the Color Corp Commander for the Fr. Kapaun Assembly #3274 in Paoli. He is a long time parishioner and usher at St. Pius X in Broomall. Charlie is a CPA and tax advisor at Siana Carr O’Connor & Lynam LLP. A graduate of Cardinal O’Hara High School, he received his bachelor’s degree from St. Joseph’s University, earned a J.D. from Rutgers University School of Law (Camden) and an LL.M. (Taxation) from Temple University School of Law.
Mary Ellen Devlin
Mary Ellen began her involvement with PHL as a student with LaSalle University’s Pro-Life Committee and went from school presenter to Program Director from 1987 to 1994. After her first child, Mary Ellen stepped down as Director but continued as an education volunteer and working with PHL’s events. She and her family support PHL’s longstanding mission of education as the most permanent means to changing hearts and minds with the truth. She and her husband Robert have four children and reside in Ambler, PA.
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Meet Our Speakers
Dr. Monique Ruberu
Dr. Monique Ruberu is a daughter of The King, a wife to an amazing husband and a mother to five adorable kiddos (2 in heaven).
Dr. Ruberu is a convinced Catholic and a Napro Technology trained Pro Life Ob/Gyn who owns and operates “Natural Women’s Health”- a private gynecology practice (naturalwomenshealth.com). She provides international online health and fertility coaching through her practice.
Dr. Ruberu speaks internationally and accepts speaking engagements through drruberu4life.com. She loves speaking about her conversion story, pro life issues, chastity, and the importance of faith.
Dr. Ruberu is the author of “Rising with Roses.” A book about her faith journey which brought her from a broken marriage to an amazing and precious relationship God.
Dr. Ruberu co-leads two 40 days for life – 365 campaigns in downtown Philadelphia. She serves on the national 40 days for life board. In addition she is a pro life advocate and trained sidewalk counsellor. She loves to salsa dance, spend time with her Lord in mass and adoration, scuba dive, travel and love on her family.
Marlene Downing is is a mother of two, author, public speaker, director of HOPE Pregnancy Center, Deputy State Director at Susan B Anthony Pro-Life America and a board member of Philadelphia Pro Life Union.
Marlene is a dedicated community leader who brings awareness to tough issues facing society. Her desire is to create opportunity for organic conversations, wholeness and healing. Her wisdom in these areas is based on her own personal experience.
Dr. Joe Zalot joined the National Catholic Bioethics Center as a Staff Ethicist in July 2017. Among his other duties, he produces and hosts the NCBC’s Bioethics on Air podcast, compiles its bi-monthly Bioethics Public Policy Report, and responds to approximately 400 ethics consultations per year. He also lectures for the NCBC and has authored multiple statements, guides, and book chapters for NCBC publications.
Prior to coming to the NCBC, Joe served from 2015-2017 as the Regional Director of Ethics and Spiritual Care for Mercy Health-Cincinnati. In this role he chaired the regional ethics committee, reviewed and drafted ethics and spiritual care policies, and initiated a nurse ethics education program. During this time, he also served as a Lecturer at the Athenaeum of Ohio/Mount St. Mary’s Seminary where he taught courses in Medical Ethics and Morality and Justice in Catholic Life. From 2004-2009, he was an Assistant Professor of Religious Studies and Ethics at Mount St. Joseph University in Cincinnati, and from 2009-2015 an Associate Professor with tenure. At Mount St. Joseph, he taught courses in Health Care Ethics, Business Ethics, Sexual Ethics, and Christian Marriage. He also taught student travel courses to Rome that integrated the Catholic faith with history and art. Joe earned a Ph.D. from Marquette University in 2002, an M.Ed. from Boston College in 1997, an M.Ed. from Springfield College in 1991, and a BA from St. Anselm College in 1989. He has authored two books along with numerous articles, and he has presented at academic conferences both domestically and internationally.
Joe is the founder and President of Dr. Z Travel, LLC, a faith-based travel company that offers educational and parish pilgrimage trips to Europe. He is married to his wife Susan (1994) and they have a daughter, Maria.
Dr. Joseph B. Downey is an educator, achieving the nation’s most prestigious awards for excellence in Music. He was previously Teacher of the Year for Burlington County, New Jersey. He’s a former Mayor, and a Counselor for A Baby’s Breath.
Joe is a member of St. Marks Knights of Columbus Bristol Council 906, and a Pro-Life Activist.
Christy Rodia is a wife, mother of two, and most importantly a daughter of Christ. She grew up in Hilton Head, South Carolina. Before knowing the Lord, Christy found herself with an unexpected and high risk pregnancy. Christy chose life, which brought blessings greater than she could ever have imagined. Roman 8:28
Melanie Winter is a wife, mother of five, and Catholic convert. She is a women’s health nurse practitioner at Amnion Pregnancy Care Medical Center in Drexel Hill and Norristown locations. She came to Amnion as God was calling her deeper into her faith and unleashing a passion for women, the unborn and their families, in her heart.
Melanie’s own journey of faith has been challenged and deepened while working with women and men who are struggling with decisions of life and death. Her passion and desire are to educate women and men on the front lines, while extending to them, the love of Jesus.
Andrew Jacoby is an entrepreneur and a recent convert to the catholic faith. Life issues were one of the main catalysts for his conversion and he is a passionate advocate for the protection of human life from conception to natural death. He is the Co-Founder of First Fishermen Media and the MenForLife Podcast
Lizzie McNulty grew up in Herndon, Virginia and graduated from Franciscan University of Steubenville after studying Special Education.
Lizzie moved to Pennsylvania in 2020 to work at a pregnancy resource center in Philadelphia after hearing the call to serve God’s most vulnerable population. This center was located directly across the street from one of the state’s largest Planned Parenthoods. Working there, she was able to observe first-hand both the realities and the evils of abortion, and her passion for being a voice for those that don’t have one yet grew intensely. Since then she has decided to dedicate her life to protecting life at every stage and hopes to play a role in transforming this culture of death and violence to one of life and love.
Lizzie currently resides in Ardmore, Pennsylvania and serves the Pro-Life Generation as Students for Life’s Mid-Atlantic Regional Coordinator. This work includes training and educating students about abortion on campuses in Pennsylvania and Delaware, organizing pro-life events and rapidly responding to pro-abortion events in the area, and continually developing relationships with pro-life groups in her community.
Lizzie can be contacted at email@example.com.
Julie Kilmer is in senior at the University of Scranton majoring in criminal justice. She is in Army ROTC and will commission in May 2023. Julie serves as the Students for Life club president at the University. On June 24th, celebrating outside the supreme court for the reversal of Roe v. Wade, Julie was motivated to spread the pro-life message to her community.
Julie is the fourth oldest of 11 children. Being part of a large Catholic family and having a father that was adopted inspired her to spread the message about the value of every human life. To promote a culture of life, Julie has actively worked as part of the pro-life movement. Notably, she is part of the Christian Leadership fellowship under Students for Life. She has worked on engaging in dialogue about abortion, educating students, supporting pregnant and parenting mothers, founding babysitting group, attending marches, giving talks to high school students, and working with the PA Humans for Life chapter in Scranton. Additionally, she attends door-to-door knocking trips around the country to persuade people to vote for pro-life politicians with Susan B. Anthony Pro Life America. Julie is the host of a podcast called, “Lighthouse” with her cousin and sister, where they interview people about their vocation stories and relationship with God. She hopes to create a community of passionate pro-lifers to help change the hearts and minds of others in her community. Julie hopes to continue her work with the Pro-Life movement when she graduates this coming May while serving in the Army reserves as a Second Lieutenant.
Peter De Maio
Peter is well known throughout the Philadelphia Archdiocese and its high school and elementary school system. Mr. DeMaio married his high school sweetheart, Tricia, and together they often share their story emphasizing their experiences as “uninformed and undereducated young adults when making decisions that impacted the rest of their lives.” They have been keynote speakers at Respect Life events and have led retreats and school assemblies often addressing 500+ high school students. Peter is also a successful businessman and a highly requested speaker for pro-life causes. Peter has been a speaker for PHL, a member of the Board of Directors since 2008 and a longtime advocate of “Respect for Life.” Mr. DeMaio has a deep understanding of the issues pro-life organizations face which will help to advance our mission and spread our basic message that “Life Begins at Conception.”
Steven Bozza is the Director of the Office for Life and Family for the Archdiocese of Philadelphia. He is a Professor of Bioethics and Moral Theology at Catholic Distance University, Arlington VA and Immaculata University. He served as an editor and freelance writer for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops Department of Pro-Life Activities for issues related to Artificial Reproductive Technologies. He has spoken and written extensively on marriage, sexuality and infertility issues for the National Catholic Bioethics Center and other publications.
Mr. Bozza has a Master of Arts Degree in Religious Studies from St. Charles Seminary in Wynnewood Pennsylvania. He has completed his doctoral studies in bioethics at the Pontifical Athenaeum Regina Apostolorum in Rome.
Kathy is a wife, mother, grandmother, daily communicant and a member of Our Lady’s Missionaries of the Eucharist. She is a Birthright volunteer and strives to be involved in every aspect of the Pro-Life Movement. She volunteers for PHL because the truth matters and pre-born babies matter. That is why I do what I do.
Clare is grateful for the many opportunities to support human life, education and community. In addition to being on the PHL Board and speaker, she is the Respect Life Leader at St. John Neumann and mentoring task force member with the college of business at Penn State University. With over 30 years of business experience worldwide with GE, Clare understands today’s global and complex marketplace. Today, Clare is chief executive officer of Business Forward Strategies LLC, a consulting firm dedicated to helping companies grow, compete and succeed as well as management of a family business. Clare holds her Masters in Business Administration and a degree in finance from Penn State.
Diane is a retired special education teacher from the Wallingford-Swarthmore School District. She and her husband, Tom, have three children and five grandchildren. Teaching for PHL is a great joy to Diane because it is an opportunity to offer a message of truth, compassion and love to young people.
Deacon Al Clay
Deacon Alvin Clay has been involved with Pennsylvanians for Human Life for over 30 years. He is a Past President and Board Member and is currently an Advisory Board Member and Classroom Speaker. For the past 20 years, he has served as a Board Member and Treasurer of the National Catholic Bioethics Center. He has been involved in the Pro-Life movement since 1973 as a student at Cardinal O’Hara High School. In 2011, he received PHL’s Lifetime Achievement Award. He is in the financial advisory business, was ordained in 2002 and serves at Immaculate Conception Parish in Jenkintown. He is the father of seven and grandfather of seven and lives with his wife Kathy in Huntingdon Valley.
Why volunteer as a speaker?
Pete De Maio, Pennsylvanians for Human Life (PHL) Speakers tells you why it’s important to him to tell students about his choices and how they affected his life.
Our educational programs are carefully prepared for the level of understanding of the group. We try to connect with each student in a way that is meaningful, thought provoking, and clear about the gift of life that every human being has the right to.
Education is our primary objective. Our presentations are factual without political or religious overtones. We seek to incorporate current news, if possible. The topics by academic year are generally interchangeable and optional. They are given during a 40-50 minute class period.
Middle School / Freshman
Students in middle school and freshmen in high school learn about the amazing 9-month journey of the unborn child with 4D ultrasound images and facts about our development. Ultrasounds, being a ‘Window to the Womb’, allow students to see the baby’s growth with its eyes, ears, nose and toes. This approach makes visible and accessible what, years ago, was not – making learning about our growth from conception more tangible and real. We explore what unfolds at the moment of conception and then throughout the next three stages of life: zygote, embryo and fetus. Students are fascinated to know that their physical, intellectual and personality characteristics were determined at conception. We use Touch of Life Fetal Models that are soft, life-like with exquisite detail for 7, 8, 9, 10, 12, 16, 22 and 26 weeks. We include a high-level look at federal and Pennsylvania legislation regarding abortion and the alternatives to an unplanned pregnancy, such as added support available in the community or adoption. We seek to reach the heart of a child with the heart of one in the womb.
Sophomore students review the humanity of the baby developing in the mother, through a high-level summary of key aspects of our growth from conception to birth. We then review the legislation at the federal and state level before turning our attention to why abortions occur. The more common forms of abortion are relayed via the stories of women who have had them; this offers a more reality-based view that can be absorbed by students rather than a clinical or ‘text book’ approach. We discuss the potential after-effects of abortion which may include physical and emotional consequences. Students are attentive and interested in learning about this topic.
In the Junior year, we discuss the ethical dilemma of dealing with end-of-life issues. In order to frame this topic, we revisit therapeutic and eugenic abortions and infanticide. These topics open the pathway to a discussion on assisted suicide and euthanasia and some of the issues that place these options into consideration. We discuss global trends and what we have learned from countries that have legislated for assisted suicide and euthanasia. Finally, we review palliative care, hospice and some high-level steps that many people take to better care for themselves or others to help mange through these end-of-life issues..
Seniors hear from speakers with personal post-abortive testimony as to the choice they made and the consequences that unfolded in their lives. Too often, the abortion choice is made without adequate information and these speakers provide personal testimony as to the effect individuals and the society at large have had to deal with. In the event a post-abortive speaker is unavailable, we are pleased to provide a review and discussion of the topics addressed in the Freshmen, Sophomore and Junior year programs.
“I highly recommend the program presented by the Pennsylvanians for Human Life. Each year, competent presenters come in and share the beauty and respect for the human person from the moment of conception with our upper grade students. Our students actually see models of the growth of a baby from the time of conception and realize how precious a human life is. The teachings of the Church on pro-life and abortion are presented in a very understandable manner for our students. Our students respond so positively to this program. I feel the program is a blessing and a must for every student in the upper grades!
Sister Barbara Montague, IHM, Principal, St. Cyril of Alexandria School
“Pennsylvanians for Human Life is a worthwhile program for middle school age students. It stresses the irreplaceable value and uniqueness of each human life. It explains the current laws in PA and the country regarding abortion. Surrounded by a culture of death in our country, students are offered a beacon of light that focuses on the importance of lie from the very first moments of conception. I highly recommend this program for your middle school aged students.”
Mrs. MaryAnne Aurely, St. Titus School, East Norriton, PA
“The presentation was wonderfully organized – the 7th & 8th grade students were completely captivated as the slides were shown and discussed at an age-appropriate level. Every student commented on how much they enjoyed such an informative and important presentation. I strongly recommend having Pennsylvanians for Human Life representatives visit other schools to share the message.”
Ms. Susan Macrone, Middle School Educator, St. Joseph/St. Robert School
“I thought the presentation was phenomenal! It is so important for all pre-teens and teens to hear the beautiful message of Pennsylvanians for Human Life, as well as the staggering (and shocking) statistics regarding abortion. I couldn’t wait to go home and talk about it with my parents.”
James, 7th grade